What’s the best part of any sexual encounter? That’s right…it’s the build-up, the tease, the chase, whatever you call it. The moment when your body starts to feel weird, but the right kind of weird. Your body temperature begins to rise and your hands get clammy, you feel that pit in your stomach (also known as butterflies), and then the excitement and tension are built up to the point that your limbs tingle. Okay, we have excited ourselves. Long story short, the little things and the exciting moments we sometimes pass over, in order to get to the climax of the show, need to be appreciated and savoured. Hold on to that feeling of excitement whether it’s with a new partner or one you’ve had for a while and enjoy the build-up.